Does Your Handshake Match The Sound of Your Speaking Voice?

By Nancy Daniels

What does your handshake say about you? Confident, diffident, overbearing, wimpy? Does the sound of your speaking voice match the grip of your handshake?

In teaching voice improvement, I have found through the years that those whose speaking voices are weak or wimpy very often follow through with an equally limp handshake.

And, those whose voices express timidity often do not get the coveted job or the promotion because the image they project is not one of confidence. To have a speaking voice that exudes confidence and authority is a tremendous asset. To have a speaking voice that sounds rich, warm and resonant is a fantastic tool: people want to listen when you speak. When Vin Diesel opens his mouth, we want to listen to him; when James Earl Jones talks, we are drawn to him; when Kathleen Turner speaks, we are enamored.

Recently I had the opportunity of working with Rob, a man who came to me because of his very soft, timid speaking voice. His handshake, however, belied his unassertive voice. Firm, confident and strong, this man's grip told me so much about him that his voice was unable to convey.

Because the majority of the population is unaware that they can improve their voice, they often speak with a sound that is incompatible with the rest of their image. There are so many wonderful resonant speaking voices that we're not hearing because most people don't know of the 'hidden treasure' they have inside.

After showing Rob how to tap into his 'hidden treasure,' I heard a voice that matched his confident handshake. Was his voice assertive? Without a doubt - however, as much as he sounded authoritative and confident, his voice was not overbearing or loud.

I don't like loud. Loud hurts your listener's ears and in time it can not hurt your throat and those delicate vocal cords. When I work with a client I show them how to increase their volume properly without shouting or yelling. The result is a larger voice, a bigger voice, but not a loud voice.

Today, competition in the work force is greater than it has ever been. If your voice can project a dynamic image, then you are one step ahead of your competition.

Incidentally, within two hours of showing Rob how to place his voice properly, I was thrilled with the results. This man came into my studio sounding insecure and diffident; he left with a voice that matched his handshake - confident, assured, assertive, and able.

What does your handshake say about you?

What does your voice say about you?

Nancy Daniels is a voice specialist and president of Voice Dynamic. Working privately and corporately, she launched Voicing It! in April of 2006, the first video training course on voice improvement. You can watch a clip from her DVD on her website, 'before' & 'after' takes of her clients, as well as an audio download in which Nancy describes what voice training can do for you at http://www.voicedynamic.com

Do You Have A Millionaire Mind?

By Marcus Yeo

This article inspiration comes from part 1 of this book, Secret of the Millionaire Mind by T. Harv Eker. The content emphasize on your money blueprint. That one money blueprint will determine his/her financial destiny more than anything and everything else combined.

One wealth principle highlighted in this book called process of manifestation that goes like this: P - T - F - A = R

Simply stands for:
i) Programming leads to Thoughts
ii) Thoughts lead to Feelings
iii) Feelings lead to Actions
iv) Actions lead to Results

Programming, being the roots in this formula, should consider the primary cause of your financial future. So as long as one could change his/her programming, it's the first essential step to changing his/her results.
Programming basically made up of 3 primary components:

1) Verbal Programming - What did you hear when you were young?
2) Modeling - What did you see when you were young?
3) Specific incidents - What did you experience when you were young?

So these are 3 programming in you about money and wealth that shapes your financial future for the rest of your life.

The next step to acquire a millionaire mind is to be aware of your past programming, to understand them as how it affected your current financial life, to disassociate your past thoughts and belief that have not help in empowering you, and lastly to declare, "I have a millionaire mind".

Another process which is really important could be Actions. Actions tend to be lacking or lost some way in life. One has many thoughts, many feelings, but may not convert all feelings into action. Key here is to 'Take Action'. And again, one thing for sure, you will get results. No doubt, results could be negative, but you learnt something from it. You Grow!

Now, part 2 should be even more interesting. So stay tune!

Copyright © 2008 Marcus Yeo, The eBiz Entrepreneur

Mindset Makes The Difference Between the Struggle and the Success

By Leanne Hoagland-Smith

Much is written about positive attitudes, attitudes are everything, think and grow rich and the list goes on. Yet what mindset is keeping you from the ability to master success? What mindset are you struggling with day in and day out?

How you look at things determine how things are to you. The words you speak and think to yourself create a mindset and how you perceive the world. Your focus (mindset) creates your realty.

Think of a record playing in your brain. Every time you think negative thoughts, thoughts of self imposed limitations such as I cannot do this or that the grooves in the record become deeper and deeper. You are literally in a hole where you continue to dig and forget the number one rule when you are in a hole - stop digging. Stop thinking all of those thoughts that are hampering your potential.

For example, if you believe that business is bad, then business will be bad because your mindset prevents you from seeing anything else. Your mindset blinds you from all the opportunities that are sitting right in front of you. As the old express goes, you cannot see the forest for the trees.

Yes, the ability to master success is not necessarily easy though it may be simple. Struggles will happen. How you handle those struggles will be a deciding factor. Your efforts through your mindset will make the difference between overcoming those struggles and being successful or giving in and not being successful.

The book The Secret addresses the power of your mind and if you set your mind to receiving great thoughts and embrace the actions from those very same thoughts you will realize success. Accepting that the mind is the deciding factor to master success has been part of man's history since recorded time.

Of course the greatest challenge is for people to understand the power of their minds as they continue to go forth in the quest to truly master success.

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